Why Job Searching While Starting a Business Is Totally Normal

Starting a business is challenging in itself, but doing so while also searching for a job to support yourself and your family adds another layer of complexity. For me, it’s not just about pursuing a passion; it’s also about making ends meet and providing for my son. It’s a constant juggle between managing client projects, sending out job applications, and trying to keep a sense of normality in our lives.

My day starts with a caffeine marathon every morning, fuelling my work on the business and job search. I do some cleaning work on certain days—either early morning, when the world is still waking up, or late in the evening when the offices have emptied out. It’s not easy, but it’s what I need to do to keep things going while I work towards building something more stable. And honestly, it’s the job search that stresses me out the most—though my teenager definitely keeps it competitive!

The Reality Check: Why It’s Okay to Seek Stability

There’s a misconception that entrepreneurship is a straight path to freedom and financial independence. The truth is, it’s often unpredictable and financially unstable, especially in the beginning. It’s okay to seek a steady income to cover basic needs while you build your business. Admitting that your business isn’t making enough money yet doesn’t mean you’re failing; it means you’re realistic. People rarely talk about it, but it’s a common experience for many of us trying to make it work.

Sometimes, I feel like I’m wearing two different hats, switching between job seeker and business owner, depending on the day—or even the hour. And let’s be honest, some days are better than others. There are moments when I question everything, wondering if I should just focus on one path. But then I remind myself why I started this journey—to support English-speaking expats in their journey, staying connected to the English community that feels like home and has my heart. It’s more than just business; it’s about being part of something that I truly care about. And, by the way, Simon Sinek’s concept of starting with why is a powerful reminder that understanding your purpose is what fuels perseverance and resilience. If you’re curious to explore this idea more, his book Start with Why is a great place to begin.

Tips for Finding Balance (Or Trying To!)

1. Setting Clear Priorities: I try to allocate specific time slots for job searching and others for business work. Of course, it doesn’t always go according to plan, but having a loose structure helps me stay focused on what needs to be done each day. I remind myself that it’s okay if things don’t go perfectly; life rarely does.

2. Time Management: Sometimes, I have to make tough choices about where to put my energy. If there’s a job interview coming up, I might have to delay a client proposal. It’s about making small sacrifices now for long-term stability. I’ve learnt to forgive myself for being unable to do everything at once.

3. Leveraging Skills: Running a business, even in its early stages, equips you with valuable skills for employers. Problem-solving, time management, and client communication are just a few of the abilities I’ve been able to highlight in job applications. It’s about finding the silver lining in every experience.

Staying Motivated: Keeping the Dream Alive

Balancing two demanding roles—and managing a 13-year-old son!—can feel like an endless cycle of tasks. Parenting is a full-time job in itself, and the challenge of keeping everything together often feels overwhelming. My son may not see my super early mornings, but he understands why I’m up before dawn, working on the business or applying for jobs. And while most people are burning the midnight oil, I’m more likely to be the one brewing the pre-dawn coffee. His quiet support and understanding mean everything to me, and his patience keeps me going on the toughest days.

Conclusion: Embracing the Chaos

The road is tough, and it’s okay to admit that it’s not easy. Balancing a business, job search, and parenthood is not for the faint-hearted, but it’s also a testament to resilience and dedication. Whether you’re building your dream or searching for stability, remember that every effort counts. Admitting that your business isn’t yet where you want it to be is not a sign of weakness; it’s a part of the journey. You’re not alone in this—many of us are navigating the same chaotic journey, and we’re all in this together.

It’s messy, it’s unpredictable, and it’s exhausting. But it’s also life, and I’m learning to embrace every chaotic, beautiful moment of it.